With a noticeable shift in people’s opinions of sex in the last 10 years it is becoming more and more acceptable for people to lead more promiscuous lives, and why not I ask! We are animals after all and have sex with members of the opposite sex, or same sex for that matter is perfectly normal and should be encouraged, not hidden away and not spoken about, this is 2014 for crying out loud!!
However although it is a perfectly normal activity, this doesn’t mean you need to shout about it and rub it in people’s faces. If people want to live in the 1950s that’s up to them, moreover there are certain rules you should always stick to when embarking on a one night stand.
If you’re in a relationship, it is not acceptable to think, “it’s only a quickie – it doesn’t matter – he’ll/she’ll never find out” One nighters are reserved for the single folk of the world, sorry that’s just one of the rules! There is a reason for this, if you’re in a relationship and want to experience some fun with other people there are ways around this, but have nonchalant sex is not the way, cheating on your partner requires more planning than that!
- Remember why you’re going out to find your one off bit of fun. If you go out with the intention of having a one nighter, remember who ever you start talking/dancing/flirting with will catch onto this and if you change your mind at some point in the night, get out whilst you can, safety is key, you don’t want to find yourself in a tricky situation.
- The next thing to bear in mind is three vital, but very simple steps. Be open with whoever you want to get involved with, this is a quick fuck, treat it as such, don’t get drawn into anything such as regular meets, this will only act as confusion for both parties. Be safe, the last thing you want to do is end up with a nasty little infection or any unwanted little dudes running around – both parties are responsible for the use of protection.
- The final tip on the agenda is the most important: Don’t feel ashamed!! There is nothing to feel embarrassed about if you indulge in a little frisky fun after hours, as long as you are safe, choose your partners with care and keep yourself safe.
With these four tips in mind there is no reason as to why you can’t go out there, get a little bit boozy and have some fun with some people who are looking for the exact same thing as you are. Good Luck!!